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The Legacy of David Jay Benfield, Jr.

Project Stay was founded on the profound impact of David Jay Benfield, Jr.'s life.  On January 1, 2025, we lost Jay to suicide. Jay was the kind of person who left a lasting impact everywhere he went.  His smile, personality, and heart for others continue to be remembered and celebrated daily by those who knew and loved him.  Through that love, Project Stay was born - not only to honor Jay's life, but to help create conversations, support, and reminders that no one has to face their struggles alone.

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“We honor the legacy of David Jay Benfield, Jr. by shining a light on military suicide while embracing every person who is struggling. Our mission is to raise awareness, break the silence, and provide support, resources, and hope to service members, veterans, their families, and anyone facing thoughts of suicide or deep emotional pain.”

Our mission is to bridge the gap in suicide awareness and support by focusing on the unique challenges faced by military members and veterans, while also standing beside anyone who is struggling. We work to connect people with resources, community, and hope so no one has to face their darkest moments alone.

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